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xander @ xph therapy

bradford / craven / keighley / leeds / all across the UK

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shame

counselling to overcome hatred of your own sexuality

Swelling, multicoloured, abstract image in which the shape of human figures can be discerned.

Hatred of your own sexuality can result from societal, cultural and personal factors. Personal factors include historical abuse and difficult relationship experiences.

acting up and getting angry when we can’t forgive ourselves

Person with head in hands looking frustrated

Feelings of unresolved guilt or shame over past actions can result in us getting angry and behaving badly as a way to cope.

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