reflections – Page 4 – xander @ xph therapy

autism-aware therapy

What I can offer is some measure of understanding and informed recognition, with the ability to adapt to suit the needs of my neurodivergent clients.

Is it past time UK therapists had a trade union?

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The trajectory and impact of the protesting response to UKCP’s announcement, that it has pulled out of the Memorandum of Understanding protecting LGBTQIA clients from being peddled snake oil conversion nonsense, will be watched closely by what we might call their competition.

What is BDSM and why do some in the therapeutic professions see it as a pathology?

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For some, BDSM can facilitate communication, trust-building and intimacy in relationships.

UKCP leaves LGBTQIA support agreement

Image of dinosaurs dressed in suits, sat or stood around the desk in debate.

The departure of the UKCP from a crucial agreement poses a direct threat to the dignity and rights of LGBTQIA individuals.

beyond breaking point: the window of tolerance

Image of dirty looking old window frame, through which a dark and disturbed sky can be seen.

What is the window of tolerance, and how can an integrative counsellor help someone stay within or return from outside it?

help we might not remember giving

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This is worth reading if you’ve got the time, especially if you’re facing mental or other struggles, for any reason.