“I offer you a safe space to explore what matters, without judgement, assumptions, or pressure.”
- UK-wide online & phone counselling
- Evenings & weekends available
- First 6 sessions £30 each
- LGBTQIA+ & neurodivergence-affirming
- A space where you can just be you
click here to book your free initial consultation
about me
Hi, I’m Xander Hinkinson mBACP. I’m a neurodivergent and nonbinary counsellor offering support for adults and young people. xph therapy is the name of my counselling practice. Whether you’re feeling overwhelmed, stuck, questioning your identity, struggling with anxiety, or recovering from past experiences – you don’t have to navigate it alone.
I’m an experienced counsellor who has worked with national and local services, schools and LGBTQIA+ support organisations. I help adults and young people with anxiety, identity and self-esteem, relationship challenges, trauma, neurodivergence, grief, and a lot more.
I know how powerful it can be to speak openly without having to mask or translate yourself. Therapy is a space to figure things out – even when you’re not sure where to start.
how I work
My approach is integrative – blending CBT, psychotherapeutic, and person-centred ideas, so the work fits you. We’ll explore what’s going on at a pace that feels safe and collaborative.
You don’t need to arrive with a perfect story. You get to show up exactly as you are.
why work with me
You might find we’re a good fit if you want:
- a space where all parts of you are welcome
- someone who understands neurodivergence and diverse identities
- LGBTQIA+-affirming and questioning-friendly support
- therapy designed around your needs
- flexible, UK-wide access online or by phone
- a human connection – kindness, patience and humour when it’s helpful
- adjustments for processing time, communication style or tics
- a Registered Member of the BACP adhering to its code of ethics
new to counselling or returning to it? click here to find out what you can expect working with Xander
background, training & experience
- BTEC Level 5 Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling
- TQUK Level 2 Understanding Autism
- Oliver McGowan Training (Learning Disability & Autism)
- Training in trauma, domestic abuse, attachment and ACEs (Adverse Childhood Experiences), counselling LGBTQIA+ clients, neurodivergence, professional boundaries and codes of conduct, safeguarding adults and children, Mental Capacity Act, equality and diversity, risk assessment, First Aid training, basic life support
- CPD in online therapy, ethical non-monogamy and relationship diversity, systemic approaches to autism
- National Autistic Society Professionals’ Conference attendee
- Autism & Systemic Practice conference attendee
fees & availability
Sessions are £50 for 60 minutes. Your first six sessions are £30 each to help therapy feel accessible. Reduced fee options may also be possible – please feel free to ask.
I offer a free 30-minute phone assessment with no obligation to continue. It’s a chance to ask questions, share what you’re looking for, and see if we’re a good fit. If I’m not the right person to support you, I will signpost you to options that may help.
accessibility
- UK-wide online & phone sessions
- Evenings and weekends available
- Adjustments available for comfort and communication needs
- No requirement to “perform” or mask
click here to book your free initial consultation
You can get in touch with Xander directly from the contact page or by finding xphtherapy.67 on Signal. You also follow Xander as xph therapy on Bluesky.